Wednesday, April 9, 2008

WEEK 7!

SO online and off-line identity: well to tell you the truth i found the reading somewhat depressing i mean the idea of "late modern intamicy based on talk rather than passion, negotiation rather than commitment and the advancement of self rather than the development of the couple suggest that the internet is UNIQUELY PLACE TO FACILITATE!" Is this what the world is turning into dating as a research assingment "a pool of resources" for which we pick and choose from! Like i get the whole like use the internet to overcome barriers like shyness etc but i grew up watching way to many disney movies and whatever happend to the whole "animal attraction" thing i mean since the beginning of time we have basicaly pused dating like hunting for pray i mean Dunedin on a sat night is a battleground filled with hunters (can be men or women) and animals (chosen partner) everyone gets drunk and pursues their chosen catch of the day! like im all for technological advancement but there are some things that should be sacred and thats the mating game! I mean i could be wrong in 20 years from now i might be using one of these sites (touch wood it wont come to that but who knows! scary) But as the artical says when the bodies of users are left behind they are able to choose and construct their virtual forms and identities - so really doesnt that mean we are living a lie through these internet realities? or maybe a sa society we are becoming way to damn picky so we use these sites to pick and choose or should i say NEGOTIATE romantic encounters! well thats all im going to say im sorry if i have upset anyone but that article worried me but whatever works for the individual! Thanks for reading until next week bye bye!

3 comments:

LaurenHagan said...

I def agree with everything you just said! half of a relationship to me is getting to personally know someone along with their flaws and all and letting the friendship grow on a natural basis, i mean everyone you meet online can change their personality to suit you and themselves. And isnt half the fun the whole first date scenario?

Priscille B222 said...

I agree with you as well. And I also think that dating via the internet or via things like speed dating and stuff is not good to create deep bonds. I mean, if I was was going to date someone via the internet, id want to be with someone who's rich, hot, funny and who likes the same things as me. Whereas in real life, these kind of things can matter if we meet that person in a pub or something, but for greater relationships i reckon we bond over different things and are much more tolerant!

Nicole said...

Thanks for ya comments guys i was starting to think i was going crazy during that reading i just think some things should be sacred so lets just hope internet dating is not the way of the future well ours anyway! finger crossed